Unusual life, John Diebboll's: see William Grimes's obit in today's NY Times.
His would just have been another fascinating obit (architect, artist ~ see The Art of the Piano) had I not met Pam Koeber-Diebboll in early October at The Art of Dying Conference. Pam and I were in the group of caregivers asked to stand in a workshop, which led to our talking during a break...and we became friends. Same situation: husband with terminal diagnosis only they'd been at it for three years.
John's family set up a Caringbridge site about a month or so ago, with details of how he was doing ... and then John died on Nov 23 of brain cancer.
The obit is worth reading, and the click to his book will take you around the family of artists from which he comes. Read his resume. Quite a life. Quite short. Quietly thinking of Pam...